Harshita Unplugged

Hello hain ji I have never been interviewed before, except for jobs. So when Gaurav asked me for an interview for his blog, I was like "Are you mad?" LOL!! Still he somehow managed to extract answers from me. All I can promise you is this is not the run-of-the-mill sorta interview, he REALLY did ask me question that I never expected he wud ask... It was fun and I did not think much before answering any of the questions. Jo mann mein aaya bol daala... Herez the link for the same, if you think you wanna read it : Harshita Unplugged Baaki mast rehney ka :) :) Ciao!! I am off to reading sabke blogs ab.. coz bahut miss ho gaya...

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Treat her like a Lady.

I wonder what gives a man, the right to hit a woman. I really have been talking abt it a lot, but then this is something that needs to be addressed. If not the earlier generation, atleast ours and the coming generation should pay heed to this. There was a time I used to think(I was 13 then) that if you are taller and bulkier as compared to a guy, you can always fight back but as I grew up, I understood that by design and by rule, men are physically stronger when it comes to the gripping and hitting strength and women are stronger more in the resilience and emotional sense. Women can take as much as you give them... be it your love or be it your hurt. Naah! nothing abt feminism here. Its just a general take on this issue. I donno how many have you seen a woman being physically battered or beaten up in your life... I wud say Good if you have not... I wud say Good even if you have... coz in the later case...atleast you know the REAL side of the world you live in. My point is NOTHING justifies hitting a woman... Be a MAN for God's sake and stop this nonsense. You think we cannot retaliate... Remember for us our relationships are more important than the agony we feel. Psychologically, it is said that a woman in the long run accepts domestic violence as a part of her life. She thinks "may be something is wrong with me". Most of us keep thinking, "It will not happen to me" but I fear almost 70% of the women in India go through this either before or after marriage. Women tend to give in to an abusive relationship calling it their fate. Make sure you help someone who is going through this by talking to them about it and making them speak up for their basic right, the right to live happily...and like a human. That's all I had to say for today... :) Hope you guys are doing awesome...

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Hazaron Khwahishen Aisi....Ki har khwahish pe dum nikle...

Itz about a lot of things this time. Marriage : People keep asking me WHY? HOW?... Why dont u want to get married right now? How long do you plan to keep living like this? I say, MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. Shaadi ka itna shauk hain, apni kar lo, dusri baar :P Hehe... and How ka toh yeh hain ki meri life hain, mujhye kya karna hain, mujhey pata hain.Some people assume that I had a nasty break-up and I am still vying for someone. Some think I am in love and cant say. I am like, Guys, apney kaam se kaam rakhkho. Pakaao mat. I am not the ones who wud let my love go away and then sip on vodka in his yaad :D :D LOL!! So if any of you is planning to ask me this question.. .DONT is my advice. Work : Donno what manager is upto, so cant say much. The UK ka manager is pissing me off big time and I am doing the same to him. No manager knows what work to assign. Weight : Nothing much happening there. I run for some time on the treadmill. I lose my breath, I lose my interest and if someone forces me or tries to restrict me to do it, I get completely frozen at my place. I DONT do the things that are asked to be done. May be I am in one of those nasty phases. Friends : I have made some, I have lost some. I am way past the age when I'll try to pretend to win frenz. If you like me and understand me the way I am, I am good. Else you really deserve someone better. I will still help the people I want to, even if they are not frenz for me anymore. Books : I am reading EMMA right now paperback and 2 states too. One is romance another is weird n comic :D Twitter : I am hooked to twitter but I have met some weird ppl there too. Since I get bored of people and things easily, I may just give up on it soon. Pata nahi :| Sense of Humor : As you can make out from the post, it has taken a backseat. Atleast for today. People : I dont understand them. They change without any warnings. Realized, koi kisi ke liye kuch bhi kar le, hamesha kamm padd jaata hain. Money : I have lost a lot of it this time. Will take time to make this amount of money again. Job : I am planning to switch careers and not just the job. May be do some course in WRITING and learn more and take it up full-time. :) UK: I realise I loved the place and I miss it. Blog : I missed mine and I missed urs ;) Kya challing??

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Soulmates and Dark Night

I won't be lying if I say that I had no intentions of coming back to the blog. Pata nahi kyun?? I was bored of writing abt me... *Zyada muskuraao mat* I can see u guys giving me that "So finally u realised-look". :D Life seems to have come to a stand-still once again. I think I got so used to staying alone in these 2 months that I am finding the whole working from home business weird. Ho sakta hain, things will change with time. I donno. Pehle toh naa, Thanks a lot to everyone for the birthday wishes. :) I had a great bday this year. Mom-dad ke saath Wake-up sid dekhi. :P I have been reading "Brida" authored by Paulo Coelho, it talks about how life is a dark night where we donno what happens next and still we keep moving on. We all are living life the way we walk thru a dark night. Hmm... uhumm.. kinda true. I think this is something that keeps the excitement going. Also, it talked about Soulmates. How every person has one.. Being the hardcore romantic that I am, I nodded my head in agreement. :P (as if he cud see..lol) One thing I strongly agree with in this book is that when you love without trying to own someone, you have nothing to lose and then is the time, when you love completely, fully and honestly. :) Has anyone ever experienced this side of love?? Aisa hota hain kya?? Anyways, I am going to start reading EMMA by Jane Austen now. I hope its good. What are you guys reading??

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UK Diaries : THE FINAL CHAPTER - Comedy Circus

Nov 28th was a hush hush visit to London. Got up at 5 am, took a train to King's Cross and walked a lot... :) I planned to take a BIG BUS TOUR there and it all worked well. I was back to Leeds by late evening.London does live upto its name of a good holiday destination. It was fascinating. So I started packing on 29th and as expected I had a lot of extra stuff so ran in the rain to buy a new suitcase. Packed till late nite on 29th, did not sleep, got ready at 2 am in the morning on 30th and rushed to catch my flight. Paid for extra luggage :|. Fun is that all the passengers in the flight from Amsterdam were Indians and mainly Ludhiana, Amritsar and Patiala-bound... Why I mentioned it is that a couple of funny things happened...Pehle toh a sardarji (who seemed to be well educated) started fighting with a guy 1/3rd of his size over the hand-baggage space. In his words "Main apna bag tere sarr pe rakhun kya?". I was a lil taken aback with his gunda gardi... aur haan!! awesome is somebody stole a woman's make-up kit and her cosmetics from the handbaggage security counter :D :D and the woman kept announcing in Punjabi abt it and well, we all cud not help but laugh at the irony of the situation. Phoren ghoomney aa gaye par kuch logon ki aadat nahi badli dusron ka samaan uthaaney ki woh bhi make-up kit:P Finally the guy sitting next to me was a theth haryanvi and he pretended to be oh-so-cool with me and I ignored him and slept with my mouth open (signature isshtyle)... I am sure that was enuff of a turn-off for him. Another guy next to him, got compeltely drunk on the flight and kept blabbering abt how awesome and rich he was... :) One thing I never understand is, ki jab flight rukti hain... and the crew specifically mentions that please remain seated... people wud stand up start picking their luggage as if they can bang open the plane doors. I asked my copassenger-- "Do you need to take ur hand bag right now or we can wait till the door opens?".. he replied -- "madam, laagey hain aap abhi bhi US mode mein ho... ghaney rule follow karey ho"... hahaha.. Mainey socha beta... nikal gayi herogiri... aa gaye apni pey... :D I said-- "naah! aap aaram se bheed mein jaaiye aur dhakka khaaiye, I have no issues, par tameez India mein bhi bahut hain, uskey liye US mode mein nahi aana padta"... :P Dekho yaar, I toh ji love India par koi chori karey toh grrrrr... Airport pe a guy from the ground staff zabardasti offered his help with my luggage, I told him ki koi zarurat nahi.. fir bhi... and later, after dropping the trolley off at the parking he says with a greedy look "madam chai paani"... Mera paara chadd gaya.. I said -- "pehle toh I did not ask u to help me.. dusri baat mujhey lagaa apni duty kar rahey ho... aur teesri baat pehle boltey paisey logey toh main manaa nahi karti par CHORI mat karo... Dikhaawa kar rahey they help karney ka aur mann mein chor"... toh woh bola-- "zabardasti nahi hain"... I said --"Koi faayda nahi..chori chori hain.. yeh lo paisey aur agli baar aisey dhokha mat karna kisi ke saath, sach bolkey help karogey toh bhi koi manaa nahi karega"... Saara mood kooda ho gaya mera... I donno wat u guys think abt it par I cant stand wen ppl take u for a ride... Saala! Khair... mom-dad se milkey bahut mazaa aaya aur chaa se bhi... I told them dher saari kahaaniya abt my trip, abt the help karney waala chor and the ladney waaley sardarji :D Ghar aayi.. realised my 600 euros were missing... fir realised ki Novel mein rakhkhey they... 3 ghantey dhoonda and found it... huh! Everyone is happy abt their gifts.. so it means all shopping and suffering is worth it :P Par ab meri gold ring kho gayi jo mom ne di thi... ghar mein hi kahin.. I am so tired of searching for it... upar se ajeeb sa jet-lag...Fir bhi...;) khushi ki baat yeh hain ki.. I am back home with my family and happy-rustam... :) Welcome home, Harshita!! Aur ji aap sabkey kya haal??

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