Reach out before its too late....

When they say "its not an easy life"...They mean it.

Mom's colleague's nephew committed suicide last nite coz he could not get the marks he wanted in the first of year of his college...and it has SHOCKED me... n brought back the memories from the past when mom's best friend's son did the same.

I can't judge the people who decide to kill themselves... they have their reasons... but when something like this happens around you...You regret...regret not being there when the person wanted you to listen...regret that u did not make that one call and told him/her that things will be fine.

Like Mom asked me " Did not he think once what his paralytic mom will go thru?"... I wanted to tell her " Mom, when a person decides to kill himself, he knows nothing except just being there, and doing that"...

I don't want to debate on this... all I want to say here is... Whenever you know someone is going thru a low,be there... tell them, you will always be there... and things will look up for sure...

Trust me!! THIS helps... I had no one who cud tell me all this when I went thru the dark period in my life... not that no one tried... its just that... when you are going thru a rough period, you tend to shut all doors that reach you...and some people never try to make an effort to push open those doors...

At that very moment, when someone stands by you and makes an effort to reach out,to help you dream again... YOU START BELIEVING THAT IT IS GOING TO BE ALL FINE.

After what I saw in my life, I make an effort everyday to reach out, to listen and to understand the people around me...Sometimes I am able to solve their problems... Sometimes all I can do is just be there... and tell them "Everythingz gonna be alrite. Keep faith".Faith does work wonders... and so does a friend's support... a kind gesture... and just a lil bit of listening and warmth...

I know every article, every blog and every book says that... but...We, the humans are so lazy and ignorant to this, that we need to be reminded again and again... so that we do not REGRET later...

Talk...Share a smile... Hug that someone today... :) Who knows its gonna brighten it up for them...

Stay happy and remember that its a precious life... why did God not make us one of the Happy Singh's (that's my pet ;))... he gave us this life so we cud make the most of it...

U will stumble.. U will fall.. but get up...shout at him (GOD) and get going!! :) Love ya!!

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Mumble-Fumble : Hai Sharmaaon...

NIDDZZI ke Blog ka Updated Link : http://drunkthought.blogspot.com How many times has it happened to you in life that someone caught you off guard unknowingly and you were left embarassed and red-faced... ;) Aaj 20 mins ki break mein, I got nostalgic and came up with this list... ;) Ab meri life mein toh masaaley ki kami nahi hain.. so I had my share of such moments... 1. My manager came from US and we went out for dinner in my cab. On our way back,I told the driver, "Yeh bag DICKY mein rakhna"... and my manager took me aside and told me "How can you use THAT word?" and I was so damn embarassed when I realised it, but still I told him that in India, that's wat you call the trunk of the car. Abhi mera dimaag mein sab time porn aur sex toh nahi chalta naa yaar. :( :( 2. Now this one is weird too, I was chatting with my long-time friend S and like every chat freak, I used the usual short-forms (for details on short forms refer to Abhinav's post) and I used CUM instead of COME unknowingly. This guy jumped off his desk I think as he scolded me "Are you mad? Never use CUM for COME"... hehe...I was so so ashamed. Men are too porn/sex centred, this proves it yet again... anyways, I still make sure I never mistake here... 3. Aagey badtey hain, I was in class 9th and two gunda-party guys were playing juggling game with tennis balls and the TBs made their way to my bench for the umpteenth time. I angrily told them "I am not going to give your balls back to you, I am going to crush them and throw them out of the window". Now I know, why they made that face and then kept laughing at me... :( 4. Summer of 2005, a guy tells me " If I did not have the ring on my finger, I wud have hit it off with you" blowing a cute punch on my head. I understood " If I DID NOT HAVE THE RING, I WUD HAVE HIT IT ON UR HEAD"...hahaha... How can someone be so stupid, I wonder. But I did not know what hitting on someone meant back then. Par hum, hum hain.. baaki saarey paani kumm hain...hehehe 5. Summer of 2007, a handsome Danish guy driving me to Pacific Ocean beach looks at me with sexy blue-green eyes and asks me on hearing me play Roxette in the car, "Don't you think you are not that old to be hearing this, I wonder if you were born when this came out". This is what I heard ,"Dont you think you are not that old to be wearing this, I wonder if you were born when this came out" and thought its about my dress and I told him " Dont worry, you need not tell people you are with me"... LOL Shit!! I realised later and I cursed myself to miss on that wonderful moment. grrr... 6. Winters of 2006, another guy tells me " Why do you keep rejecting men, are you not straight?"... I told him,"Well, yeah am not straight, I am curvy"... hahaha... Coz I did not know what STRAIGHT meant back then... mujhey laga pata nahi yeh kyun bola aisa;) ;) 7. Summers of 2008, a guy asks me to marry him, my reaction,"Haww, kyun? kya hua? koi ladki nahi mili?" with a serious look on my face... He made a face, looked at me in confusion and went away. Well, I was just being ME. :( There are many of such moments, I am sure we all had some of these at one point of our life.. toh tumhara MUMBLE FUMBLE moment kya hain?? Aur suno yaaron! mere ko EGYPT se ek professional assignment ka offer aaya hain.. If all goes well, I will leave for Egypt soon for 2 months... :) Aish maaro!!

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Maar Daala... :D :D

Arey yaaaaaaar! blog likhney ka plan toh nahi tha.. par yeh chunari mein daag ne mere bhejey ki band bajaa di... I HAD to change the song and the mood of the blog.. I know I have been angry about a lot of things offlate... and I know they are not going to change... Kya karein!! par effort kartey rehney ka... Ofcourse there are many a things, that have changed... Famous of all is the Delhi High Court ruling which everyone is talking about. For some, it is good news and for some, it is not. Like my mom... being the typical punjaban that she is, her reaction to this news was "haaye rabba! waisey hi ladkey nahi miltey shaadi ke liye... ab yeh law aayega rabba.. hunn teh hor mushkil ho jaayegi". Isn't she fun?? hehe.. It is particular of Hindustani Maa-log, they always take every news with their kids in their mind. I am sure not many LGBT activists thought of this reaction. ;) But may be they did, if they have Punjabi moms. ;) Another change is that my manager finally gave me a leave after I wrote him an emotional mail.. but sooner he forgot he assigned leave and he called me on Day 1 of my leave and assigned a lot of work and when he stopped his speech of work, I told him "Ahem! well, seems you forgot, but you approved my leave two weeks back". His reactions was "Really? I did??"... LOL... By gawd!! life mein tamaashey kamm they jo yeh bhi... he still asked me to work on a few things as it was urgent and I spent day 1 of my leave working for my office. :D Kya kismat hain?? wah wah. Change was that MJ is no more with us and some people are only written good of when they are no more. Ahem! I hope we'll realise that we gotta tell them, we love them, when they are HERE and not when they are not around. Ek aur change tha..mast sa.. Change of attitude... The story goes that we have our family's ENT specialist, Dr. Ombir Singh and we all turn up at his door with our Kaan, Naak and Galaa isssues. We swear by his treatment and I am a secret fan of his. Recently, my mom's best friend told her that HER neighbour rushed into her house with the news that Dr. Saheb is dead. He died of a heart attack while examining a patient. Probably, the bad-breath was something his heart could not take up. Main toh khudh sochti thi..how come he manages to look to deep into people's throat...yuck yuck!! Anyways, so mom passed this news to bua, bua passed it to her neighbours and her neighbors passed it to their friends and family. Finally by the end of the day, almost 3/4th of the NCR knew that Dr. Saheb is gone. My Chaa(chachu) is a regular patient of Dr. Saheb so he decided to pay his regards to the family and he rushed to the clinic the next morning and he came back home with an APPOINTMENT. Dr. Saheb is alive and kickin it with the magnifying glass and churi kaanta that he has. ;) Moral of the story is : Hindustani Aunty log ko "Gossiper of the Century" ka award toh milna hi chahiye.. Some of them mourned his death by not eating lunch, some cried and some good souls like me felt really bad for him. hehehehe... Achchey khaasey mast aadmi ka ram naam satya kar diya by gawd!! In short, Oh! Darling yeh hain India... :D :D This brought in a change of attitude atleast in my mom, she has decided she'll make sure the news is authentic before she lets it spread...LOL.. I am enjoying cooking at home, lazying around and watching action movies like Die Hard and Mission Impossible... :D I love them. I had no plans to come near my laptop all this while but cud not resist sharing this news with you guys... hehe...mujhey lagaa kahin Dr Saheb ki tarah mera bhi raam naam satya naa kar diya ho logon ne yeh sochkey ki I am no more blogging... Toh behno aur unkey bhai logon...hehe I AM STILL ALIVE... :D :D Have fun logo... ;)

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