Yeh Dil Maangey More!!

Whenever I am off to bangalore for an official trip, I make it a point to catch up with frenz. Some of them are a permanent fixture in the itnerary. So on one of such visits to a dear friend of mine, I met someone I used to be a great fan of. Reason being I assumed he was a person of great conviction,loyalty and sensitivity of what all I had seen of him with my friend. Anyways, the post is not about him to start with but about something bhai told me once. Let's get into a flashback.My kid bro is a big committment-phobic or shud I say he assumes so, probably he thinks that means you have attitude...watever..So when i got to know he had two galfrenz, I was shocked. I mean me being a person who has grown up on romantic novels and movies , can never digest this. He asked me such an innocent question ," Why cant I fall in love with two gals at a time?". "Oh poor thing! sure you can if you are insane or a super-confused character who does not know how to differentiate your emotions", I told him. I know he did not take me seriously on that. Afterall, how many guys take gals seriously no matter wat? lolz... Now back from flashback : So wen kid bro asked me this, it was time to give it a thought but then it disappeared amidst my busy schedules and on this trip to bangalore, I met this superstar. I was telling my friend how bhai was telling me this and we both were discussing it with amazement and soon this Mr. Superstar steps in the discussion and says," Why not? he is right, one can love as many gals at a time". haha... I am terribly disappointed here, although I know how famous he is for being a casanova character but saying you LOVE two people at a time is a little difficult. I was delighted I had two subjects to study now: If bhai was not enuff, someone else too joined the bandwagon and I was sure there were more to come. I looked at Mr. Ex- Superstar( now ex coz my assumptions somwhere misled me, i realised) and with a smile was telling myself in punjabi," Kar lo gal, ikk kamm sigaa ikk hor aaya". All that I know of him, he is as good as my kid bro, not yet found the ultimate love of his life coz he has a super-power to fall in love with more than one woman at a time... ;) I did not get time to think about it in early future though but then I saved this for my diary article and the more I talked to my guy frenz I realised that "Falling in love with more than one person at a time is Confusion ka sabsey badaa side-effect".... :) You have someone and u crave for better and better but where does the search end...It does end somewhere...I am sounding like Baba Ramdev now...ha ha...but truly it has to end somewhere..In my romantic novels, it does end...he he :) Realistically speaking, I go shopping and even if i buy my favourite designer jewellery, as soon as I step inside another store, I feel so bad I spent 2k already on it and there is somethig much better I can buy not knowing that my first buy was worthy enuff until after few months when I wear them on the ocassion I bought them for, i get so many compliments for them and I see someone else wearing what I thought was worth buying and it looks pathetic for that ocassion....ha ha...its a typically girly story.... But its wat we are all about, arent we? So why cannot we look beyond perfection and why does yeh dil maange more and more... and gets nothing at the end :) I am looking for answers but my subjects have not yet found the worthy enuff yet....poor chaps!! Guys, do you have any answers?? I am left wondering...