Moment of Realization
Sometimes you have one of those usual weeeks and one of those usual days but its upto you to make them un-usual or special as they say...
I have thought quiet a bit in past 2-3 days, not that deep thinking I must say... but some sort of thinking... and I know things have changed... changed somehow.
I no more want to lose weight just coz the whole world wants me to get married... I want to(infact, to correct it) I AM, working towards it coz I WANT TO look beautiful and feel good/fit about myself.
I understand I have lost some years of my life in fixing it(life) up, instead, I cud have just lived it up all those years.
I know now that I somewhere deep inside don't understand marriage and it is absolutely normal to feel that way. You don't marry coz everybody does, you marry coz YOU want to.
I realised I am ambitious and I DO want to make it big someday. May be end up as someone who will be remembered for all the good and SOME bad things... ;)
I now understand that I am HAPPY when I want to be... I know I can make jokes, laugh at them like crazy even when people dont make them for me. :) In short, now I know, I don't need someone to be happy... I have it all in me.
I now realise that I have so much in me that I left un-recognized. I just did not notice that I AM SPECIAL. Probably, in this race called life, I left myself way behind and when I stopped to catch a breath all I did was rush back there and get myself back together again ;) DONNO IF IT MAKES SENSE TO YOU!!
I now realise that I am a good person but I have to get better...
I know now, that the time is less and there is so much to do in this one life... and I am going to make the most of it.
I understand that sometimes all that matters to me is to make everyone smile around me... it kinda makes me feel content and alive.
I know now, who are my friends and who are not... So I will still help people, the way I did... but I will only love the few good ones ;)
I know now that people pull you down coz all they want is to be YOU...
I donno something inside me makes me feel positive and tells me.. that it is one of those times when things change... and this time they've changed for good...
Did you try finding out something great about urself today?Did you smile today?? If not, DO THAT right now. :)
Arey haan! HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY, YAAR!! ;) Bhool gayi thi... :D... Hope u guys had a fun weekend.
75 comments:
I agree with what ever u just said. We need to really 'live' our life!
I still have to realise it..i mean i know aisa karna chahiye but abhi ander se feeling n realisation ani baki hai..
i still end up worryin a lot over small things..
:D
Anyway Happy friendship day to u too yaar!!!
:D:D
Happy friendship day to you too.:)
nice post or hum sab key liey achcha hai jitni jaldi hum apney aap ko realize karwa ley apney barey mai week as well as strong points easy ho jaega life ko accept karney mai.
Firstly Happy Friendship Day :)
You know something today ur post told me how much i think like you....i know i m ambitious, i know i dont understand marriage, i know i lost myself (i understood ur sentence)...i know how to make people smile even if i might not know how to smile when i need it, i know who my true friends are ......and i know i m special.....wow i can go on i love ur post :D
and i also know one thing when i m down and have noone to make me smile i have this blog to do the magic :D
tussi to philosophy me bhi cha jate ho ji ...tussi great ho :D :D
Height of Realization.. :D
I mst say, you had a self-realization packed weekend!
Itna sab kuch Do hi din me chak diya.. gud hai. Keep It Up.
Happy Friendship Day. :)
one more baat.. agar abi tak Love Aaj Kal ni dekhi na then Go n watch it uske baad u will realize ki isse achi kahani toh me hi likh deti.. even more, Deepika se achi Acting bi kar leti..
&
then,
finally you will realize ki you were fast asleep n isse acha toh Ghar par hi so jaati.. :P
Cheers.
hmmm...revelation or realization it's all worth the life we've spent searching for it...
and loved some of the points really :)
good feeling! good feeling! keep it live! :)
This is a happy post... fills my cup :)
with regards to workouts... start with the aim of getting fit instead of losing weight... it helps :)
besides, being fit counts a lil more than being in shape :)
take care mate...
i loved your post!!! its one of those posts ive been wanting to do but never got around to doing ..
happy friendship day to you too... theres a gift for you on my blog..it would be nice if you put it up on yours.
(I WANT TO look beautiful and feel good/fit about myself)
Fantastic words And the moment I read the same I started watching you silently...
You are (bolna padega kya)
beautiful !!!
:)
What a post..!! just lovely..!!
Those r some real good realisations to go through.... We live for ourselves before anything else..... :D
I no more want to lose weight just coz the whole world wants me to get married... I want to(infact, to correct it) I AM, working towards it coz I WANT TO look beautiful and feel good/fit about myself.
This summed it up.. :)
Cheers..!!
Arjun
Happy Friendships Day!!! :)
And mujhse pehle hi pooch liya hota toh bata deti. Kya? That you ARE special :D
well the weekend was not that fun, but thats for some other time ;)
another post abt life, hmmmm i loved it as usual, but more and some more so this time
i totally am with you on that side, life is all abt seeing and living to the better thing in life, beliving in hope and turning those dreams into reality
great post yet again ji, and a very very happy friendship day to you too harshita, may god bless you with all the happiness in your life without a single ounce of sadness :)
take care and keep writing..........
Maa kasam... shaadi ka pressure itna jyada bad gaya??? :P
Arey jaisi life jini hai jiyo...aur tum to abhi job bhi karti ho...to suno sab ki karo apne mann ki...hai na dost.
loved this harshita-ish post :)
Your post made me smile coz u smiled while writing this post :D
you are the most positive person i hv ever come across...and i want u to stay that way.
u spread ur cheer wherever u go
and i'm starting to sound like a lesbian
*stands 10 feet away from u*
>:D< jhappi ke saath pappi...
happy belated friendship day :) friends forever :*
lovely post!!coz life is all abt realising....good to know that u hav realised so many crucial things which make life so much simpler and better. :) happy friendships day to u too. *hugs*
@Mads
wat nonsense? x-(
Self realization is soothing! isn't it..! :)
(The pic is very soothing as well! or is it?)
very very happy and blessed friendships day!!
may God bless you always
and hope u r able to lose weight :D
happy frndship day to u too di.. :)
i also want to realise all these things. n i think i have realise some of thm .. n i m a lil of happy n enjoying my life.. :)
tune likha ye???
sacch bol..
accha laga mujko :)
Awesome!
The best realization is to know that you are special :)
Very different form your regular ones :).
Contemplative, introspective..
The joy of realizations you wrote is immense.
Happy Friendship's day :).
happy friendship day!!!!
you know everyone in this world are so special , it is just that they doesn't know that they r special.they will realize when time comes and this time came for you now.. congrats...:)
yes you have it in you !
(It reminds me "I have it in my jeans" wala joke btw :P )
We would be the strongest people in the world the moment we start believing in ourselves. Every landmark set for us would be our own landmarks ..!!
very +ve post ...wid i dunno how many million Joules of +ve energy :P :)
oopss how come i missed this post :O
nywazz rem u r special...everyone of us are special...self realization..just wow..u r in right path friend
Wish u too happy friendship day
tc
good post Harshi.
god i just gt so scared.
i was just writing the first line in the comment suddenly something played. i freaked out
dhuu it was Celine Dion( what eva the spelling is)
i smile too, i thank god too for gifting my another day. for blessing me and choosing me to live another day.
i m so glad we have restaurant to eat whn we dnt want to cook, we have guards guarding our house, a lift man to open the door.
in one way thanking God for gifting a luxurious life. m happy m contempt. I have enough money tht i dont have to beg or sell my body.
:) :) :) life is short. appreciate and count ur blessings
evry word of urs is absolutely right harshi!! it makes so much sense...wud u believe me if i tell u this is very close to wat i am feeling these days?
and haan..very Happy Friendship Day to u too... :)
glad to have met u... :)
Very truely said.
I have been wasting time in gaining weight you know.
Marriage ko to laath maaro...bhaad mein jaye..mujhe nahi karni shaadi...
Sometimes i feel it takes a lot to be happy and sometimes i feel its all within me. I think its the same with most of them :)
Chalo ek achcha pravachan to mila padne ko :P
Happy friendship day to you too.
Cheers
Belated Happy Friendship day :D
Your posts leave me kinda speechless.... I enjoy reading them so much as if you are in person sitting with me and sharing things :) :)
It makes perfect sense to me, Harshita. There are some things that are just too important to miss ... like life for instance. I've been losing weight but it is because of a much improved diet and exercise program. Best wishes to you for whatever you decide.
Skeeter
happy friendship day(belated)..and excersie ,do everything not for others but only for yourself!!
nice blog!!
friendship day wishes.. and have a great married life.. i am putting on weight cos i need to get married too
Good one Harshi..
@Apparantely Intellectual
Jis din feeling aayegi sab mast lagney lagega... :) I also worry a
lot... I mean A LOT... :) You cant stop worrying, we gals tend to
do that more than often.
:)
@Sneha
Thankoo
Bilkul sahi baat boli tuney...
@mysterious gal
Hi5... :)
Thankoo... :) hehe...velley logon ki philosophy!!
@Arpit
arey sochney ke liye toh 1 ghanta hi kaafi hain ...kahaan se
kahaan tak pahuch jaati hun main...
I dont watch Deepika's movies... even Imtiaz cud not force me to
do tht... I kinda dont like her at all.
@Nanhi Pari
:) thanks
@Meera
yeah trying to... ;)
@Arv
I will take that tip up... thanks.
@Harini
Thanks so much for the wonderful gift. :)
@Hobo
hahahaha.. thanks...this adds up to my confidence to work harder now.
@Arjun
:) yeah kinda... thanks.
@Ki
hehe...sweeto!!
@Thousif
thanks a lot for the wonderful wishes... :) wish u a great life too.
@Abhishek
haina! bahut hain yaar...
hehe... job yaa no job... mom-dad ki baat sarr aankhon parr!!
@Pagli Mads
thankoo che!
haina! I also want to stay positive if not for me... then for the
fake image I have created for myself :D :D
Jhappi paa!!
@Ria
jhappi to u too...
@AD(Abhivav)
jealous!! hehehe...
pata hain mujhey pic ke baarey mein... :D :D
@Americanising Desi
thanks a lot.. wish u a happy life too.
@Sahityika
:) great kiddo.. wish u the same.
@Amrita
haan galti se likh daala...suddenly... khe khe... thankoo
@Sugar-cube
:) yeah I think so too.
@BrownPhantom
haina! even I thought so...
I do have a mind that sometimes thinks :D :D in vella time
@Suree
I agree... thanks.
@Peter
LOL@ the joke
kya baat kahi... wah wah.
@The Geekie
:) see u just made it in time... I quiet think so too... its the right path I think.
@Niddzzi
hehe.. haan I love that song... I thought it wud relate to the post too.
tu toh humaari sabki inspiration hain... super positive... :)
Aisi hi rahiyo!!
@Soumya
haan.. i do believe you.. :) me too glad to knw u
@Mahesh
lucky hain tu.. weight gain!!
yes happiness is all there inside us...
Arey! pravachan deney mein toh main expert hun.. bas kabhi uspey amal nahi karti... :D :D
@Deepika
sachchi... thankoo
@Skeeter
thanks a lot, Skeeter... take care.
@rahul
thanks.. I will.
@prit
haha... U wanna marry me for my blog's looks and my pic... pics are deceptive.. ek baar dekh logey live to saarey sapney thoo-thaa ho jaayengey...hahahahaha
I agree to the thoughts you've shared in here...wonderful lines there.
@chriz
:) hehehe
@Manish
Thanks...
rightly said,, people pull u down because they want to be u
muchchi :D
(Sachchi muchchi) he he
Hmm I hopped here from Hirdu's blog.
Ur post inspired me to do some Self realization :)
@Uncommon Sense
:)
@Deepika
haan muchchi... :D
@Boldnbeautiful
:) great..isn't it?
:))..i can very much identify with it...:) btw are u the same Harshita whos Megha's friend..i am sry fr being so random, but i know a Harshita whos a blogger too, throu Megha ofcourse..:)
Nice post....:)
cheers,
deepti
Whatever u wanna do.. do it for urself.. dont.. do anything to please others.. well a lil.. to the special ones.. but thats about it.. thats my way... and believe me.. im much happier...
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