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Life ka ek hi formula hain... when you are being too sad and low, all you can do to fix it all is STOP BEING SAD and START being happy. Hain ki nahi??
So I am trying to stop being sad and I am going to do it right now. :)
Although it did not matter much but my colleague (whom I talked in my last post) called up the next day to apologize and shamelessly share her wedding plans and professional plans. Some people never change, all that matters to them is WHAT THEY FEEL...haha... All I can do it laugh at her. She surely is going to fall flat on her face one day and I wish someone is there to pick her up then.

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Gotta LIVE before I die...

For those who are expecting it to be a fun-post...naah! it is not...so if you are already depressed or sad, dont read this one... I dont want to be blamed for your Monday Blues....
Sometimes there are things that happen and make you sit back in silence and reflect over your life. There is another death in the family after February when my Tauji, my dad's cousin passed away. This time, its my dad's older-cousin's wife.

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Hass-Gulley!!

Abhi kaam mein busy hun.. par do itni 'DHINCHAK' mails aayi... socha share karun... ;) Do tell me, how did you find these pics.. I toh, had a hearty laugh...Filhaal ke liye itna hi.. thoda hasso... khush raho... and I'll be back with another ORIGINAL post.
Here is the link for another one... it was too faded to read... so I instead pasted a link.. you can zoom and read it here ... ATM JOKE.

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HEROES

Hey Guyz, from now on, I thought I will do something interesting like requesting people who influenced my life to do guest posts once in a while on my blog under the HEROES post title. This post is by my best friend - Pallav. The way he changed his life by taking a stand, is an inspiration for me. His story is awesome. :) - Harshita

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Fearless, Free, Happy, Peaceful...

A week that started with so many questions, ended in some more questions and some answers too. :) - Found an answer to my confusions about someone in my life and finally decided to cut off completely. Negative people should always be kept away coz they never want to grow and they never let you grow in life. So, with help of a new-found friend, I took this step and I am feeling good. I now know the answer to the question about friendship - Frenz may be less number but they shud never be less in terms of their love and loyalty towards you. So, even if I started with around 70-80 friends few years back, I am comfortable now in my own space with some 3-4 very close friends and 6-7 other friends. It is pretty peaceful now and great to be amongst people who understand me well... and whom I understand as well too. - Surprise...Surprise... After annoying my frenz n family and still keeping up with my work committments, my manager's big boss calls me unprofessional and asks me to travel to make up for some miscommunication US team caused. I politely declined it coz bhai-log are still on the way to recovery. He did not budge and called every possible Indian manager. I stood my ground fearlessly for the first time in my professional life. That is so unlike me... :) I am glad abt it though... let's see what happens on Monday... Hope my hard work pays off and my job is saved...baaki dekhengey :) Family is priority...yaar. - Realized that nothing can beat the pleasure you get when you clean,wash and cook for your family. It is absolute pleasure to do things that make them happy. - HIGHLIGHT OF THE WEEK : Harshita eating lunch, Happy Singh comes running from outside with something in his mouth which has a brown colored long stick half-hanging out of his mouth...Harshita assumes it is some veggie leftover or plant... She gets back to eating... Something shakes her up and she looks at Happy Singh again... and she shouts at the top of her voice... CHIPKALIIIIIII... LIZARD ...MAA... and closes her eyes... sweats... and shivers... Thankfully, Happy Singh senses something is wrong and the lizard gracefully jumps out of his mouth... yuck yuck.. It was alive until Babli Aunty killed it... Yucks!! I kept thinking what if someday he ACTUALLY eats up a lizard... Mom tells me... I shud not love him so much... coz if someday something happens to him like it was with my first dog Caesar, I will not be able to get over it... I think she is right but I can't help but love him... I wish he always stays the same and he has a long life... :) I know its crazy... but if you are a pet-lover... you'd understand... Arey! I missed it naa... Happy Birthday Anwesa dear... Sorry, I am late. LONG POST........NAA!! :) Aur sab mast??

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Angels or Demons

Who decides what's right and what's wrong?
Who decides what's good and what's bad?
Who decides between an angel and a devil?
Why is it WRONG when you tell people that they suck in their face, so they know how awful they are?
Why is it WRONG to hurt people when all you are doing it for is to make them see the truth?

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Thodaa Sa Gussa Aur Pyaari Si Thanks.

No long poems and big stories to tell here. Bas thodi si news aur thodey se hello-hi. Latest is that Ankii's twin- Arpit has also fallen sick with Chicken Pox and we had to call him back to Delhi from Tamil Nadu, where he went for his exams. So now we have a room dedicated to both the kids : I call it Special Ward...LOL and I am going to play the role of a full-time nurse now. ( I wonder how can I keep my funny bones kicking during all this...ahem ahem)

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Shockers and Shakers!!

Khair... I toh always believe that everyday is all about something exciting no matter if the reasons are positive or negative, excitement gotta be positive at the end of it all.
This week was all about shockers and some shakers.
- Me and Mom were discussing about PF when she told me that no-one get his PF withdrawn without paying commission. You need to bribe the clerks there to get your PF. Not that I did not know about it, its just that, I thought it was an old practice and now people are more into system and rules. It was a shocker for me for sure. Ask me why...well I am someone who is so adamant about not bribing that I usually avoid getting into any government office related work. I can never understand why I need to bribe that Clerk for getting MY hard-earned money. Was he sitting there with a hand-fan and shooing away the MAKHKHI-log (flies) from my money?? Crap!

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Love in Punjab... Ek Aisi Isshtory...LOL

Born in a punjabi family, I have grown up eating desi ghee, listening to punjabi folk music and seeing people get TALLI on DAARU (drinks) but I was never able to discover the age-old secrets of 'Love in Punjab' until....One day listening to one of my favourite punjabi love song, I entered the zone of enlightening. I realized the undiscovered, the undescribed and the un-discussed side of Punjabi love. My friend Abhishek always said "Punjab mein jab koi bachcha paida hota hain, toh maa usko dekh key apney pati se bolti hain...Ji main isey POP singer banaaongi"...LOL...He used to tease me ki Punjabi bas khaatey- peetey(Please read it TALLI hotey hain) aur naachtey hain... I wud not like to comment on this. :D but yeah! I want to share the GYAAN Punjabi Love songs gave me : 1. Your lover is high on calories and injurious to health. He/She is either Makhkhan or Malai and in worst possible scenario SHE is Patiala Peg. 2. Even looking into your lover's eyes can intoxicate you. Didn't you hear the song "Botlaan Sharaab Diya Akhkhaan Teriya" - Your eyes are bottles of liquor. 3. The Punjabi guys impress their women by singing "Desi Ghee di churi kutkey, tere mooh vich paava" - Means I will feed you ground chapaati in desi ghee. Refer to the song on the blog for details. 4. All love songs are based on either ghee,makhaann, food aur liqour. 5. Every lover has a high risk of suffering from diabetes coz all females are compared to Sugar-based delicacies. (Gudd, Mishri, GulaabJamun) 6. Every gal is referred to as- JUGNI. Who is Jugni?? Don't ask me. 7. All lovers dance to bhangra songs and not some love ballads. 8. It is mandatory for a guy to take GEDAA ( rounds) of a gal's house 10-15 times a day on his bike to impress her and let her know that she is the one. 9. To prove his love, the guy shud atleast scare away 5-8 goondas away or he shud have Sardaari in the locality. 10. Every guy should compare his galfriend to some fat-based food item or something as disastrous as Liqour. 11. A guy who does not drink is a THASSI and no gal wants to be with him. Ideally, 98% men are found on THEKAAS (Liqour shops) after sunset. 12. 80% lovers secretly meet in Sarson ke Khet :D :D 13. 93% lovers sing JUDAAI KE GAANEY!! :P :P 14. Almost every gal sings "Boohe Baariyan" once in their lifetime to impress their lover. 15. 76% of the females have long hair, laal paraanda, chaudhvi ka chaand looks and they go shopping and do nothing but dance in Giddas. 16. 97% men in love(Jatts) are sharaabi(MANDATORY) and they find their love in marriages or melaas where she is doing nothing but yet again dancing. 17. Lovers are often compared to RABB giving Almighty a serious Inferiority Complex. 18. Aashiqui is a full-time job and is a compulsory part of growing up as is DRINKING and singing. 19. A lover can be dissolved in Daaru and one can drink him/her. necessarily HER. 20. No matter how old they are, they stick to Glassis which are used to serve lassi to small kids. :D This precious GYAAN of the civilization is your way to find love in Punjab and in case anyone wants to add something I missed on, they are most welcome. P.S. Thanks everyone for your wishes for Ankii, he is better now. Will take another 15 days to be back to normal. I think this weekend will be some relief if the mercury does not shoot up as always in Delhi.

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