Fearless, Free, Happy, Peaceful...

A week that started with so many questions, ended in some more questions and some answers too. :) - Found an answer to my confusions about someone in my life and finally decided to cut off completely. Negative people should always be kept away coz they never want to grow and they never let you grow in life. So, with help of a new-found friend, I took this step and I am feeling good. I now know the answer to the question about friendship - Frenz may be less number but they shud never be less in terms of their love and loyalty towards you. So, even if I started with around 70-80 friends few years back, I am comfortable now in my own space with some 3-4 very close friends and 6-7 other friends. It is pretty peaceful now and great to be amongst people who understand me well... and whom I understand as well too. - Surprise...Surprise... After annoying my frenz n family and still keeping up with my work committments, my manager's big boss calls me unprofessional and asks me to travel to make up for some miscommunication US team caused. I politely declined it coz bhai-log are still on the way to recovery. He did not budge and called every possible Indian manager. I stood my ground fearlessly for the first time in my professional life. That is so unlike me... :) I am glad abt it though... let's see what happens on Monday... Hope my hard work pays off and my job is saved...baaki dekhengey :) Family is priority...yaar. - Realized that nothing can beat the pleasure you get when you clean,wash and cook for your family. It is absolute pleasure to do things that make them happy. - HIGHLIGHT OF THE WEEK : Harshita eating lunch, Happy Singh comes running from outside with something in his mouth which has a brown colored long stick half-hanging out of his mouth...Harshita assumes it is some veggie leftover or plant... She gets back to eating... Something shakes her up and she looks at Happy Singh again... and she shouts at the top of her voice... CHIPKALIIIIIII... LIZARD ...MAA... and closes her eyes... sweats... and shivers... Thankfully, Happy Singh senses something is wrong and the lizard gracefully jumps out of his mouth... yuck yuck.. It was alive until Babli Aunty killed it... Yucks!! I kept thinking what if someday he ACTUALLY eats up a lizard... Mom tells me... I shud not love him so much... coz if someday something happens to him like it was with my first dog Caesar, I will not be able to get over it... I think she is right but I can't help but love him... I wish he always stays the same and he has a long life... :) I know its crazy... but if you are a pet-lover... you'd understand...

Arey! I missed it naa... Happy Birthday Anwesa dear... Sorry, I am late. LONG POST........NAA!! :) Aur sab mast??

42 comments:

Ashutosh May 17, 2009 at 5:09 PM  

Lovely post...absolutely love ur attitude towards life be it on a personal or a professional level..keep it up! The added humour ting makes this post all the more adorable!

peter May 17, 2009 at 5:27 PM  

wah family over job ..great !!
Friends toh bas kuch he hotey hain baaki toh So called Friends hote hain...!
how creepy that wud be to see a dog eating a lizard ...ewwww !!
Ok ok u love ur happy singh but i hate lizards like i hate spiders x-(
and happy b'day to anwesa :D

The Geekie May 17, 2009 at 6:02 PM  

in ur oder blog Relationship ka Jhamela...u mentioned abt forgiving..its better to forgive d person and stop thinking abt him/her and start living our day

thts wat...thumbs up for dat post

here in 1st para....even i hav too went thru same situation....-ve ones nvr grow really nor even let u grw..ryt said..there r some relationships which dnt last forever...bcoz u cnat change 1's nature...its better to hav few frends whom we can trust n expect something from dem....this makes d relationship balanced

The Geekie May 17, 2009 at 6:03 PM  

POST ITNA LAMBA NAHI THA i guess

but mera comment thoda bada ho gaya :P

Priya Joyce May 17, 2009 at 8:08 PM  

heyy yaar tum bhut filmy dialogue maarti ho :P

tat frendz waala :P

heheh tat chipkali waala scene rokked lol :P

hahaha
i juss love reading such full of life posts frm u re.

Illeen May 17, 2009 at 8:43 PM  

ok..happy singh,is ur pet..kool!

god bless you harshita..u shall tide over bad times.

Richa May 17, 2009 at 8:49 PM  

omg , thank god Happy singh is safe!! phew..

ur frnz philosophy is cool, i kindda follow tht in my life :)

oh n fingers crossed for ur job and i am sp proud of u tht u stood for ur family :)

LOTS OF LOVE!!

Anya May 17, 2009 at 9:17 PM  

i started with 1 friend and his girlfriend finally became my girlfriend...and i lost all my friends but gained all their girlss..

it was kinda balance.. so dint bother..

have u eaten a cockroach?chriz

Lucifer May 17, 2009 at 9:41 PM  

good some ppl need to kicked out...best way to get rid of em...

n chipkali...ewwwwwwwwwwwww!!!

Arv May 17, 2009 at 9:42 PM  

he hee... Thank God that lizard was not eaten :)

Wish you a lovely week ahead... all would be well... take care... cheers...

Manish Raj May 17, 2009 at 10:21 PM  

So much with life..chill out Harshita..

Pallav May 18, 2009 at 9:27 AM  

u knw.. u rock....
i knw u knw.. because u rock... with rock(is bar yeh "Paahad" wala rock hai)
arey manager ko dekh lenge u dnt woryy..
BY god sachi.. Happy sing with Lizard.....

aur sun... Keep Smiling.. i love to see u smiling...
:)
Cheers :)
Pallav

Nikhil Menon May 18, 2009 at 11:20 AM  

dis is sooooo feel good.. :) had been away for a while,rather disturbed on my insides..Feels great to be back here.. :)

take care sissy..

Nikhil

Yamini Meduri May 18, 2009 at 12:29 PM  

a feel good post dearie..!!! come back soon.....with your special posts..!!!

Hope your Boss is good to you forever..!!!

Happy Singh will be fine ..dont worry..!!!

soumya.... May 18, 2009 at 9:13 PM  

hope evry thing's cool at office harshi!

Happy Singh is a darling...dont u worry...he will be just fine! :)

AB May 18, 2009 at 9:44 PM  

baapre.. itni lambi post.. padhne k liye 2 aankhein bhi kam pad gayeeee!

Yeh lambi post hai? :O

Sahi baat.. having less frnds but gud frnds does the job!

hehe.. happy that boys are abt to recover..!
eating lizards?? is ur happy singh chinese??

Phoenix May 18, 2009 at 10:04 PM  

so many things to react to..

1. about friends... i absolutely agree... and i firmly believe... Good riddance of Rotten rubbish... if people complicate your life chuck them out of it...

2. happy sigh is such a brave heart yaar!! i love him!!! aur tum ak dum darpok hai... :D hehehe

3. office.. good... im glad you are experimenting with your mahaprabhi avtaar... its good to stand your ground...yo harshi!! and go women empowerment!!

4. mwuaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah *HUGS*

simply because i love and miss you..aur mann kar raha tha... :)

Mads May 19, 2009 at 2:39 AM  

yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy im backkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
*dances*
*sings*
*whistles*
*does nautanki, like u did nautanki on my blog :P*
par mai tumhari tarah expert nahi hu nautanki department mei :-w
btw do u follow shobhaa de's blog sincerely? :-w

@ post...mast post...loved the way u stood ur ground and didnt let ur boss harass u. hope nothing happens to ur job n they dont harass u. touch wood che :-s
how are ur brothers now :-w FB update nahi dikha so assumed they are okay now :-ss
and happy singh :| what is with him yaar...

lizards ko kyu? :( thik se nahi khilati naa..isliye aisa hua :-w bad harshita :P
i dont want any lizards in happy singh's diet..okay che? :-w
and yeah close friends will always remain wid u and always keep u positive :) did u count us bloggers in ur friends list or not? :-w
and loved the title of ur post btw :)
hahahaa u wrote a long post, so i wrote a long comment!! revenge sweet che
*sniggers*
:P :D >:D< harshitaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa :)

Unknown May 19, 2009 at 11:26 PM  

These managers I tell u :(
Glad that u didnt back off :) Hope all is fine now!

I know it is an amazing feeling to do things for people u love!:) Even after a hectic day at office, I just love cooking for my bro:)

Arnab Majumdar May 20, 2009 at 11:16 AM  

Hmm, too true what you said about friends. It's the quality that matters, not the quantity. And if your friends refuse to let go of the negativity, they're not your real friends.

And I can totally understand how attached you can become to your pets. Although, technically, I never had a pet, but my Nani had a dog, and I know how much I miss that doofus! :D

Cheers, keep writing...

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:57 PM  

@Ashutosh
Thanks. :) I think humor keeps us alive, yeh nahi toh hum nahi... :P

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:57 PM  

@Peter
thankoo... ;) haan, par tu so-called nahi hain, oye!
Mat pooch kitna creepy tha...yuck yuck..
I hate Lizards... infact I have a phobia of lizards.

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:57 PM  

@The Geekie
Yeah! I have forgive the other person and thus, I have parted ways.

Hope you have all gud frenz now.

Hehe... mujhey bhi lagaa post itna lambaa bhi nahi tha.. par comment achcha tha.

Thanks.

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:57 PM  

@Nanhi Pari
main toh poori ki poori bollywood hun bhayee.. PHILMY!! :P

chipkali scene rocked?? nahiiiiiiiiiiiii

;) full of life and full of food... :D

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:58 PM  

@Illeen
yeah! Happy Singh is my cute lil dog... thanks for ur wishes.

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:58 PM  

@Richa
haan..thank god.. he is safe

I try to follow it but stumble coz of my friendly side at times... :)

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:58 PM  

@Chriz
Yuck yuck... cockroach...nopes. :P

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:58 PM  

@Mayz
I kicked them OUT ;) yuck yuck chipkalli!!

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:58 PM  

@Arv
yeah...thank god... mera happy bach gaya... wish u a gud week too.

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:58 PM  

@Manish
Kahaan ho? ;)

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:59 PM  

@AD
sachchi?? ;) thankoo...

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:59 PM  

@Pallav
me issmiling!! ;)

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:59 PM  

@Multimenon
Oye bhai... ;) wapas aa gaya....

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:59 PM  

@Yamini
thankoo... there is nothing special in me and my posts. :) just the way u see it.

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:59 PM  

@Soumya
haan rey! ab everything is under control

Me May 20, 2009 at 3:59 PM  

@Abhinav
haina! itni hoti post ki beizzati kardi mainey... ;)

Naah! happy singh is pucca punjabi!!

Me May 20, 2009 at 4:00 PM  

@Raka
1. Chuck De ;)

2. Haan! Happy Singh is brave but main toh faint hi ho jaati... :P

3. hehe... zyada ho gaya toh naukri bhi chali jaayegi.

4. Muaah to u too.. just coz I am wearing a tasty gloss today...hahaha

Me May 20, 2009 at 4:00 PM  

@Mads
naacho...naacho...na na na na...naacho!! ;)
Main toh poori nautanki chey!

Naah! not sincerely par on and off, i read her... ;)

Thankooo itni nautanki ke liye...

haina! bach gayi.. my boss is in hospital... :D usko typhoid ho gaya...hawwwwwww... am being bitchy...hawwwwww

Happy Singh bengali banta jaa raha hain... aajkal rasgulla fan ban gaya hain... pehley tanduri chicken khaata tha...

BLOG FRENZ - close frenz chey!!

Haina!! title mast haiga!!

Revenge super-kool che... ;) ;) ;)

Me May 20, 2009 at 4:00 PM  

@akanksha
yeah..managers offo!!

haan ab sab theek hain... ;)

arey! badi achchi bachchi hain tu toh... itna kaam.

Me May 20, 2009 at 4:01 PM  

@Arnab
Aww.. pets meri jaan hain yaar... ;)... meri nani ke ghar toh bandar aatey they bas... dogs toh nahi they... LOL

Frenz wahi jo sahi!! ;) kya jingle hain!!

Mads May 22, 2009 at 7:02 PM  

ur boss in hospital :O
yeah we shudnt be bitchy :(
*hides her grin* :P
happy singh ka diet abhi mast che :P

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