Doesn't matter if you are black or white....

I am a lil worried about one of our blogger frenz, it seems her parents took her cellphone away and she is not able to keep in touch with all of us. I saw tweets from her where she is contemplating coming out to her folks about her being gay. I donno how they will take it but I really pray that they accept her as who she is and not try to force her to change herself coz frankly she can't.

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You gotta problem with me?? haha

Life che! Infact, I must say, MERI life che.. toh masala toh hoga hi ;)
My close friend is leaving,to pursue his dreams and I know I will miss him loads but then, like all friends, we will also try to keep in touch. I have a message for him - "You know what?I am not good at saying what I want to say when I should say it...but I wish you luck and success in all that you do and remember that, I will miss you almost roz... :P but that DOES NOT make you my boyfriend" :D :D LOL!! So stop flattering yourself and get a hot gal for a gf as soon as you reach where your dreams and life is waiting for you. I really will miss you yaar" *sigh*

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Are you ahem!... virgin?

This question looms over all relationships and even the prospective marriages. Thankfully, no prospective groom asked me something like this ever, else those who know me, would know uska kya hota ;) But yes, My friends have been asked such questions by their prospective grooms :D
So, everyone has opinions about it. I also have one... which is that I don't have any prerequisites as such. It depends on an individual how they want to look at it. I have no such expectations from my partner that they should not have done 'IT' before with someone. I mean *shrugs* , I take this to be just usual stuff.

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A little something you should know about me...

 
I curse such days...why do we even have them...when everything goes just wrong...but then I tell myself, be it.
This year too I have not been promoted as I see it and I am still slogging like anything. People around me are worried about me and concerned, and I do see that.
Some think that I should stop my career bullshit right here and live like NORMAL gals do. Frankly, I donno what sets apart a normal gal and a gal who thinks she also deserves appreciation n has the right to dream.

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Marrying the rapist...

 Fine. Blame me for it. But this does not get into my head.
The Chief Justice of India, made a statement today about how a victim should be allowed to marry her rapists if she wants to. Ahem! I wonder who would want to marry a person who damaged their soul beyond repair?
I mean, may be, I am not the right person to comment here, but all I understand is that I still have so much anger for the man who groped me when I took my first bus to college, the man who back-slapped me while I was out for a walk, the man who attempted rape on my co-traveler in front of my eyes, the man who forcefully dragged me to a train and tried to molest me when I was 6 yrs old and the list goes on...

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There is nothing like a PERFECT GUY or MR. RIGHT....

When I was in school, I was more a part of the guys-gang than the gals. May be, coz I grew up amongst guys at home.The short skirts and long nails did not make sense to me (frankly long nails still don't). 
Anyways, I guess I was the most ignorant person in school coz I was helping a guy patao a gal who was no one else but ME *sigh*. Ohkay! you can laugh. But,I had no clue. There was no perfect image of a man I'd fall for in my mind back then, may be I liked Sanjay Dutt back then or may be I thought he should be like Dad... *can't remember*.

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