30, Single and Not-sorry :)

In a world where being a 30-yr old single woman raises eyebrows, I am more than looking forward to turning 30 at the end of this year.

There are various floating perceptions about women who stay unmarried till the age of 30 or beyond. I recall how my male colleagues whispered to themselves a couple of years back, while talking about my then-female boss "frustrated hain, shaadi nahi huyi na uski"... I was amazed as to how people get all judgmental over a woman's age. She might actually be getting better sex than all of them. Frustrated!! :P

Ironically, these are the guys who would wait for a glimpse of the short-skirted women at work even after being happily married with kids. Where lies the frustration, then? :O ;)

Anyways, all of us have such set of guys at our workplaces. So let it be.

In India, we have more of women deciding to wait for love or wait for their careers to shape up before getting married. I believe this is justified to an extent, coz it really does not matter who marries first, what matters is how long the marriage lasts...

The world is agitated. Why? Coz they expect a woman nearing 30, huddled in a corner, depressed and lonely.. with all the melodrama attached, but what they see now is a 30-something woman, single and happy in her own world. HOW CAN THAT BE? Aren't unmarried OLDER set of women suppose to be sad, lonely souls? Eh!

I don't intend to ruffle any feathers here or challenge opinions. I think, it is time, we accept '30 and single' is not old, sad and lonely anymore. 30 is not even the new 20. 30 is just awesome 30.. with a thumbs up!

So, instead of worrying about age and all that jazz...best is to indulge in 30s.. coz science says, this is when women are at their sexiest best...let us kick some heels.

Mast raho! Dilchasp raho!