UK Diaries - Nov 8 - Love, Sex or both??

Yeah! right. Another movie, another thought process and some more questions. I saw "Lie with me" yesterday and well, from all the reviews I read, I thought it wud have an intense love-centred storyline and it did have one, but then it is also one of those movies that critics would pass off as porn. It ain't porn in the first place, I would say its more graphic. The characters are messed-up people, but the message (even if they did not want to convey any) was clear.No matter what, at the end of it all emotions do matter. Be it a man or woman, after series of senseless sex sessions, everyone craves for feelings somewhere. I assume that it is already a long running debate. If you ask a guy/gal, "how abt casual sex?", they will jump out saying "yeah! works for me"... but then you ask them for how long... and they wud never tell you forever. Coz its also not abt relationships,casual or watever, its about basic needs. The way sex works for your hormones, emotions work for YOU. As in the movie, the couple starts with casual sex but their lives get interwined and things get complicated coz at the end of it all, you need concern,care and yeah! the overrated word as they call it, LOVE. So, if you have to choose between love or sex, am sure sex will have more votes,for now. But I think, its both that help strengthen a relationship. After all, you cant survive on sex alone, all your life, unless you are an addict... but then you need rehab, dont you? :) What do you guys say abt that? Is it one of the two or is it the mix and match of both??