Hey gal! You complete him...You complete you.



"A man needs a woman to complete him" -- When I overheard my Dad saying this to his cousin ,I ran to straight to him and gave him a biiiiiiiig hug. I felt so proud of my old-man... :)

Ofcourse, most of the people may think of me a sexist or this statement as biased...Well, my Dad's cousin did. A man of few words, My dad did not care to justify himself...so I pitched in. 

I think what he meant by this is : a man, when he is a child, needs a mother to nurture him, introduce him to unconditional love and this beautiful life.He does need a sister in his growing up years to understand emotions, sharing, tolerance, inner strength and sensitivity much better.Later in his life, a gf or wife steps in...she is a mother, a sister, a friend and a lover...rolled into one.

Another wonderful woman enters his life, when he is blessed with a daughter.. and he learns sacrifice, fear, compassion...and love once again...

I do think a woman completes a man... My dad said THAT coz I know he loves his woman a lot.. and he saw this woman stand next to him through his crisis, telling him not to give-up ever. Coz she loves him despite his bald-self, his bad temper and  his toothless smile ;)

Men are awesome, no doubt... and I simply adore the ones in my life.. but I see them as kids who always need love, nurturing and a woman who can give them all... It does not make them weak or anything, it just reflects the wonderful dynamics God created here.

Ab iss baat pe, ladne mat lag jaana... Mast raho, Dilchasp raho!! ;)

16 comments:

Kunal January 10, 2012 at 2:53 AM  

Wise words from your Papa...explained logically and with kindheartedly by you...

Can't disagree with it...but may be other way around is true as well.. :P

Ab iss baat pe, ladne mat lag jaana! :D

Rià January 10, 2012 at 4:10 PM  

Yes couldn't agree more! :) A man always needs a woman to complete him.

Blasphemous Aesthete January 10, 2012 at 7:08 PM  

And a sexist man would listen only when another man would speak, for if a woman speaks such words, no matter how true the assertion be, it would fall on deaf years.

What your Papa said is one hundred percent true.


Cheers,
Blasphemous Aesthete

Priyadarshini Joyce January 10, 2012 at 7:26 PM  

WOW some stuff!!
the lines beautifully explain hw we women complete men...

Isn't it the same for us women??
dun men complete us too??

Priyadarshini Joyce January 10, 2012 at 7:29 PM  

OH bete!! harshiii!! damn u gurl :P
hw's yaaah??
i just realized tats this is u :P

**jhappi**

hw's ghaziabad winters?? :P

Jack January 10, 2012 at 9:31 PM  

Me,

That is why it is said that a woman has many roles to play. Without her the world will be incomplete what to say about man.

Take care

Lady Whispers January 11, 2012 at 4:00 PM  

I can't agree more with u :) In my house the men turn weak in front of us and are the strongest outside and inspite of all fights, I love the men in my life, my dad and my bro :)

aur ur dad is one rare man who accepts it so such a great man ...kyon na ho aapke dad jo hai :D

Mast rahneka :D

Yamini Meduri January 11, 2012 at 6:53 PM  

Beautiful one Harshita...i tho loved it alot..!!

i have been a daughter, a sister, a friend all this while...but now entered the new role of being a wife...after reading your post i really felt that i am not only the woman of my man but also the mother, the sister of his life..!!

ab daughter tho nahin ban sakti na...!!

cheers to your papa..!!

Arpit January 11, 2012 at 11:04 PM  

hi..
sry meine post bi ni padi.

mujhe ni pata tha how to reach you.
so msg drop kar ra hun yahan..

yar meri fattt gayi hai yar.. aapko bata ni sakta bahut tagdi attachment ho gyi thi yar..
matlab aisa lag ra hai jaise chalti hui road pe thappad maar ke nanga kar diya ho..
bloody i feel so fucked right now yar.. :( :(

i felt lyk cryn par khulke ro bi ni paya..
i just want to run away from ths fuckin job ryt now..
par option ni hain or ghar pe baithe kutte ko to padosi, relatives sab dutkar dete hain yar..

aap vishwas karna yar.. saree emotions.. sariii feel laga di thi meine..
or benchod mila to kya.. muh pe ek tagda tamacha yar..


yaar itna man karra hai.. sab ki ma behan karke bus ghar chala jaun..

mere bhai ne bola tha itni mat maraa.. sab professional hai..

par uski nai suni.. me bolta tha meri company ka scene alag hai.. tu ni samjhega..

aaj bencho sab samajh aa gya ki how right he was..
& what a fuckin fool i am!

Arpit January 11, 2012 at 11:09 PM  

jab sala aap duniya ko galat prove karne chalo to duniya se to door chale hi jaate ho or jiske liye duniya chhodi wo aapko chhod jaaye to kya hi baat hai!!!!

yar mujhe ek baat batao jab us bh**** ke ne meri maarni hi to 2 minute ka hero kyn banaya..

i was the 2nd best in my company.. i was proud of myself & today just come n look at me.. AUKAT dikha di meri...

do kodi ke chutiya kutte se jada ni hai.. jisko jab man chaha puchkaar diya.. or jab man chaha dutkaar diya..

Arpit January 11, 2012 at 11:19 PM  

fashion movie dekhi hai???

waisa kuch laga lo...

benchod kal ka 4 mahine purana londa mujhse jada ho gaya...
believe me technically i am neither strong nor kamjor...
but emotionally kisi mad** ch** ka level nahi ki mujhse compete karle..

i feel my work.. i gv my emotions to it!!!

kabhi jhooth bolke chutti nai maari.. jab sala paani sar se upar ho jata tha tab ghar jata tha..

gharwale sochte hain ladka yahan kya hi teer maar raha hai.. unhe kya pata bencho yahan apni izzat bechkar paise kama raha hun..

kuch din pehle tak theek tha.. sala meri izzat lekar thodi si izzat de deta tha..
aaj to sab kuch hi apne paas rakh liya..

i not even drunk par fir bhi aaj khud ko control ni kar pa rha..

Nidz January 12, 2012 at 5:27 PM  

Big hug to ur father frm m me too .. gals rock :)

Arpit January 12, 2012 at 11:51 PM  

Pata me apko isliye goli ni marta kyunki aapki aisi baatein dil jeet leti hain.. *no wonder you r still alive* :P


Yar matlab na aap to na bus RaWsome ho.. beshtesht friend!!! <3 *facebook wala dil.. just for you.. dekho-dekho toote na* ha ha.. :)

isi baat par ek sher arz kiya hai :
IRSHAD IRSHAD
chalti ka naam gaadi..
god bless my yaadi..

ab waah waah to kardo.. nahi to goli maar dunga..! :P

Me January 13, 2012 at 5:45 PM  

Kunal,

Yes. I think a man plays a significant role in every woman's life. Although, I don't know yet if he completes her or not. When I experience something like that on my own, I will let you know here on my blog.

:)


Ria,
Hehehe... meko pata tha u will toh definitely agree :P


BA,

Nice to know you agree, too.


Nanhi Pari,
Badi than hain bhayee yahan.. poocho mat :P

Howz u? itte din ho gaye, pehchaan ni paayi.. kallo baat.


Hawk Scary,
Thanks.


Sir (Jack),
Experience always knows the best, so do you. Take care :)


Lady Whispers,
I love mine too.. Men never grow up, I love them for this trait the most. :D


Yamini,
Thanks.. Congratulations!


Arpit,
Tu bole glass aadha khaali, main bolu bharaa bharaa... :D

Niddzzi,
A big hug to you too.

Yesudeep January 13, 2012 at 7:03 PM  

All I could do reading this is smile. =)

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