Emotional Adultery
The other day Me and Phoenix were discussing Emotional Adultery and it made me write this post today.
I was not aware of the term 'Emotional Adultery' until I read about it in the newspaper columns. It attracted my attention and I started relating the concept to real-life and found out that the consequences and causes are so true.
Herez what I understood of it :
I found out that under Christianity, Adultery of mind is treated same as commiting a sin and the term 'emotional adultery' was coined. In a routine life, we end up meeting people we can confide more than we do in our spouse or partners and there gets built an emotional connection. You end up sharing each and everything about your day, your life, your happiness and your sadness with someone other than you partner only at an emotional level.
It is pretty prevelant in today's times, when both the partners are busy with their careers and life. They hardly spend quality time with each other and somewhere the emotional connection gets hampered and one day they meet someone at workplace, yoga class or even at a party with whom you can connect... as you see more of them as compared to your partner.
Unknowingly you commit what is called as emotional adultery when you share every single thing about your life with some-one of the opposite sex whoz not your partner in the same manner you did share with your partner. I wonder, sometimes we end up commiting the same unknowingly.
We all do have frenz we confide in more than we do in our partners and to an extent it is a well-accepted concept but when it turns into a bane for your relationship with your partner, it is the time to save your relationship and happiness.
I have come across people in my life many a time who ended up sharing more with their friends as compared to their respective partners and later this caused trouble in their marriages. :(
I am not yet married, not in a relationship to comment on it...but this is something that attracted my attention and I thought of sharing it with all of you.
What do you think about Emotional Adultery? DO you think there is something like it in this world?
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Later I added diyaas to it. Another pic shows the firecrackers lit by a cute kid of our neighbour.
The best part is when you get to go to everyone's place to gift them with sweets and other stuff. 
