FASHION-able Lives

A lot has been written about the movie FASHION... but I saw it today and I realized how similar my life is to the movie...infact every life is... I would say we all have a FASHION-able life somewhere. Naah! Naah!...Main Super model kya? Model woman bhi nahi!! ;) (leave being a supermodel, am not even a model woman) The similarity is that like every average person, I have seen the downs(I must mention the deep shit one can ever see) in my life and there were times when I knew I just could not do it anymore. After an emotional and physical setback, when I tried standing up again to face the world. I did fall down many a times but then, there have been people who have been there for me to tell me... "Gal! We are not going to pick you up, Get up and Go get them" :) My best friends Archi and Ashish along with Inder stood by me thru these times. I could see then in Janet,Rohit,Rahul and Shonali :)This is so true, no matter what...if you have good frenz by your side, you can win the world. I stumbled too...failed interviews coz I lost my self-cofidence...failed in meetings...and then came the time when everything changed...I do fall many a times even now but then...I get up... jhaaodfy myself, look up...and tell myself "Ho gaya bas!! Ab chaley kaam pey" :"Is that enuff!!..lets get back to work" :) I love watching such movies where people bounce back from the dead...Gives me a high! There were times when people looked at me and said,"Boy! She is finished, you think she'll survive this?"... ha ha haDamn! I don't blame these people, coz even I asked myself, "Will I survive this?" and for days I could not hear any reply but I hung up there holding on to faith... Therez nothing that can beat FAITH, I tell you. Seriously, Itz an amazing life...when you are caught in the down times, you think you'll never come out and when you are out and shining...you look back and say,"Ah! That was ME". Such experiences move you closer to life...and they add to the spice, adventure and fun that life is all about. Call me a die-hard optimist or anything...but I do believe that no matter what hits you... YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS IT IN YOU TO BOUNCE BACK AND SHINE AGAIN :)

24 comments:

abhishek November 13, 2008 at 5:58 PM  

on the reactions column i vud say 'buoyant'...nd on friends i can't stress enuf on how imp part of life they have become ...keep bouncing back

peter November 13, 2008 at 6:15 PM  

yeah..failure is a part of our lives and i did not realize it untill some years back coz untill then i hadn't seen any :(
but now i see thngs and i get happy or become sad the way thngs are

Arv November 13, 2008 at 6:35 PM  

Hiya...

I dont think that I will see this movie... but I like your last line...
very true of we should be...

cheers mate...

vemuri November 13, 2008 at 7:32 PM  

hmmmm am lucky to read ur post now.... like am in my down time as u said.....

it gave a lot of inspiration.....

i fuckd up my GRE and TOEFL....

i guess its time to rise..... and i guess ur damn right....... and i shall think positive.....


i got an answer for my last blog post.....



Cheers!!!
Peace!!!

Phoenix November 13, 2008 at 10:44 PM  

its all about us really... and the fact that you have learnt and help people like me to learn it as well, makes you an awesome friend to have....

mwuaah :)

hugs

Anonymous,  November 13, 2008 at 10:45 PM  

A world exist within us. We are the ruler/slave/ fighter/loser and above all "The Winner"

Anonymous,  November 13, 2008 at 11:48 PM  

Hey Harshi, u rock and u deserve a standing ovation for this.....****takes a bow******

and guess wut, i too saw fesion today and loved PC....saw it 2nd time though...

And i concur with u when u talk abt fightbacks.....This post is one of the BEST i have ever read......

And the last line is absolute cracker.....You are one true gladiator in every sense and i appraise u for that....

and i cud say this cos somewhere down teh line i have lived life on similar lines, coming out of nowhere and from a typical precarious situation.....And my most inspiring person out here is Saurav, he is HERO!!!

Super post........And this makes u a super Blogger....!!

Anonymous,  November 13, 2008 at 11:52 PM  

And yeah the song "Mitwa" says a great deal about pampering one own self ;)

zirelda November 14, 2008 at 9:28 AM  

I think I needed to read this today.

Thank you so much Harshita. You are truly a beatiful woman.

Sneha Shrivastava November 14, 2008 at 9:38 AM  

I read somewhere that if you
do not succeed the first time you must consider yourself average. I felt like hitting the guy who had this on the footnote of his email. Resilience,persistence,perseverance- this is the ultimate mantra for success.I believe That if you succeed in the first time it means either it was an accident or there was no competition.
love
keep smiling.:)

http://gshanky.wordpress.com November 14, 2008 at 10:00 AM  

yeh
i can relate to both the movie and the post . but i never thought that its done Mr. Almighty always do strange things with me and sometime they are good and sometime bad but only momentarily in the long run all well :D

... November 14, 2008 at 11:21 AM  

चल बख्श दिया इस बार, थोडी तारीफ़ सुन लो...

गिरते हैं शहसवार ही मैदान-ऐ-जंग में,
वो कमज़र्फ़ क्या गिरे, जो घुटनों के बल चले...

All good things in life are difficult to achieve...like writing a good post...ha ha ha

Harry November 14, 2008 at 2:36 PM  

Just a phoenix rises from it s ashes so as we humnas need to... God gives us a 2nd chance for all we do..and even if he doesn't we need to meander our way...
Fashion teaches us that.. and thats wat i loved abt the movie. As far as the Hrshita Di is concerned- M sure most of u know... She is one such angel of GOD who could always help you find out ways to rise!! Cheers di! for being so wonderful for urelf and for us...... love ya!!! :)

Priya Joyce November 14, 2008 at 6:16 PM  

super post dear ..failures.....hmmm yes hav faced many..but hav taken it as a part of lyf...
hmmm so am happy

btw I luv the blog song its one of ma favs

Nidz November 14, 2008 at 10:21 PM  

hey harshu, u r awesome.. i can say awesome in nt the word. I rem when i started bloging i was so low, i had left all the hopes and always wrote something which showd i was sad.. always cribbing abt life tht i was missing due to my accident.. then u came. u showed me the right way. u showed duniya main itna gam hai, mere gam kitna kam hai. when u tld me wht all u had gone thru and still u rise and shine.. i thought y cant i?? its was a bad phase and u helped me out from tht. ..
thanks a lot dudey.. I love u soo much.
when we are sad we dont get our frens around us. at times its not true to say tht they are not our true frens.. but at times its true to say.. those were really not our true frens who left us in time of sorrow. Frens do change with reason and with season.. Cheers to frens who stays forever!!!

Skeeter November 16, 2008 at 6:32 AM  

Well, I agree with Arv. Don't think I'll see this one in theaters, but if it comes on the television, I'll give it a try, I guess. Right now I'm enjoying the final cut of "Blade Runner" and really enjoying it.

Best wishes,

Skeeter

Aevi November 16, 2008 at 1:22 PM  

nice post... and would add this to the end of the post

...everything works out eventually

Me November 17, 2008 at 4:13 PM  

@Abhishek
Thanks. BTW I cannot post a comment on your blog, the link does not allow me to do so.

Me November 17, 2008 at 4:13 PM  

@Peter
Yeah! We do understand once it happens to us and then we come out as winners...Don't we?

Me November 17, 2008 at 4:13 PM  

@Arv
Thanks. If you find time, do watch it though.

Me November 17, 2008 at 4:14 PM  

@ Vemuri
Yeah! This is it...This is the time to go out and do ur best. Positive Attitude helps a lot. :)

@Phoenix
I am glad you are my friend too :)

@Hobo
Completely Agree.

@ Sameer
Ha ha ha.. thanks for all that appreciation... I feel we all are the same, its just that we have different ways to bounce back.

I love MITWA song.

Me November 17, 2008 at 4:14 PM  

@Zirelda
Thanks a lot. Its a pleasure to know you.

@Sneha
Let us find that guy and hit him together ;)
I love your philosophy on the same.

@ Gaurav
Itz God's way of preparing us for the best he is going to give us after the troubles.

@Girijesh
Thanks, for change taareef ke liye :)
Good post...hmm... I know few people who come up with good posts...will forward you the links. Tab tak inhi posts se kaam chalaa lo. :P

@ Harry
Sweetie... Thanks for all the praise... I am honored.

@Priya
Li'l Angel, you are tough for sure.

Me November 17, 2008 at 4:15 PM  

@ Niddzzi
I have no words for all that you written about me... I am so embarassed... :(

I am so thankful to you for being such a warm person and a beautiful friend to me.

For the last time, you fought ur own battle, I was just their to give you a boost ;) Sab tumhaara kiyaa dharaa hain...lolllzzz

@Skeeter
This movie is in Hindi Language... so I know you will not be able to watch it.
Aha! Blade Runner - Have not yet seen it...my bro talks abt it though.

@ Abhi
Thats so true!

@la vida loca
Thanks... :)

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